The effects you can achieve by using toys for sexual play

Sex toys are of many different kinds. They can be used alone by oneself or together with a lover or play partner. Erotic toys can give many exciting effects:

They can give types of stimulation at erotic points that is not so easy to achieve by hands or by using each others sexual organ. Vibration is such a stimulus. Vibration give a special kind of sexual tickling at the spot where you point the vibrator. The vibration also spreads through the body tissue inwards and outwards, and thus give stimulation to a great ara. These spreding waves give a special kind of ecstatic or aroused. backgrownd feeling in a great area.

Sexual toys, for example a thick dildo, can also be used to stretch the vagina or the anal opening in a greater degree than by ordinary intercource. Or to achieve the opposite, to give a more gentle stretch than ordinary intercource. The sexual body openings have a strange property regarding physical feelings. To insert a thin object that give a gentle stretch give feelings that are as strong as the feelings you get when you stretch the openings wide open, but the feelings are vey different. By stretching your openings out with different degrees, you will experience a long range of different feelings.

Dildos and other sex toys can also be used to gradually widen your vagina or anal opening, if you whish these openings to be wider or more elastic to ease intercource, or for some medical reason.

You can also use toys to reach hidden points in your intimate area you cannot reach other ways, and thereby get acsess to the ritchness of feelings these hidden points can give. Examples of such points are the women's g-spot, points deeply hidden inside the rectum, or the prostate area that can be stimulated by means of toys inserted into the rectum and then directed upwards.

Furthermore sexual toys can give you an opportunity for gentle and quiet sexual stimulation when you simply are to tired to do more vivid sexual activities, but still feel a cripling lust in your intimate area. Then you can use a toy to stimulate yourself in a easy and gentle way.

You can even use toys to stimulate yourself automatically without you having to do anything. For example can a women insert a vibrator egg in her vagina and just let the vibrations do the job with herself laying passively just enjoying. A man and or women can do the same thing in their rear opening.

There are also toys you can install in your intimate openings and have them inside during your daily life, and thus get a permanent sexual stimulation during the whole day. Vaginal eggs are an example of such toys.

There are also toys you can install around your genitals or your whole intimate area that gives you a constant sexual feelings during the days. Special kinds of underwear or chastity belts for men or women are examples of toys giving this opportunity.

Some degree of pain at special spots on the body can give many people a sexual arousal. There are a great variety of toys that can be used to give a very controlled amount of pain at special points without hurting.

The form and colour of sexul toys can give many special psychologtical stimulations that ordinary intercource cannot.

Toys can be used in roleplays betwen two or more persons. The role setting will then give a psychologically induced arousal in addition to the physically produced excitement.


How to use sex toys

Condomes

Condomes are often regarded only as contraceptive measures, but they can also be used as sexual toys to give added excitement to the sex play. Many condoms have structures like ribs or knots. These structures give your partner extra sensations when they are dircted outwards. Structures that give a physical influence the other way towards the penis will give a mechanical stimulation to the man wearing the condome.


Penis rings

Penis rings or similar products are to be threaded around the base of the erected penis. One purpose of penis rings is to help the blood remain in the stiff pensi so it keeps itself stiff and hard for a longer time. Penis rings must not be used too long, because a hindered blood strem in the penis in a longer time can hurt the penis. Penis rings also stretches and stimulate sensitive points at the penile base and in the surrounding of the penis and can therefor be used add pleasure and excitement. Some penis rings have small connected vibrators. The vibration will propagate through the penis and the groin area and thereby greatly stimulate a big area.

A penis pump is often used before the penis ring is mounted to give as great erection as possible.


Vaginal dildos and vibrators

With the help of a dildo you can reach many sensual points in the vagina. Common standard knowledge tells that the vagnal wall itself do not have much sensitivity. However, the tissues around the vagina have a lot of sensual areas. With a dildo in the vagina it is possible to excert pressure and msage these surrounding areas, either with the tip of the dildo, by stretching out the areas with the inserted dildo or by bending the dildo in certsain angles. Thin and thick dildos give different possibilities of duing massage and excerting stretch at these areas. By useing dildos wich are bent in suited directions, it is also stimulate certain surrounding areas.

On of these areas is the G-spot (G-point) or Grafenberg spot. There are some conroversy regarding the existanse of this area. The reason for this, is partly that there are many areas at the upper side of the vagina that can give sexual pleasure upon mechanical stimulation, and therefore it is not clear what area or spot shall be given this name. However, there is an area reaching all the way fron the upper side of the vagina, surrounding the urethra and up to the clitoris. The lower part of this area is what usually is called the G-spot.

Many dildos have vibration power. The vibrations make waves in the whole area around the vagina and stimulate all the sensual points in the pelvik region.


Vaginal eggs

These are round or ovoid smooth objects made of plastic or metal to be inserted into the vagina. Some of them may also be used in the anus. They can be used during masturbation, or you can have hem inside sever hours during day or night and get a constant sexual pleasure from the steady teasing excerted by the vaginal egg. The eggs usualy have a ciord attached to them so that tyhey can easily be pulled out again.

The egg usually has some mechanism that add extra stimuli. They may have an extra ball inside that will move around and give exciting vibrations. Others have electricly driven vibration mechanisms inside, powered by an outside battery.

By clenching with the pelvic muscles, the egg inside the vagina or anus give extra sensations. Objects that are permanently plased in the vagina or anus for some time also have a very strange effect. They stimulate nerves that send impulses to the spinal cord and from there to the whole pelvic region and stomach region. These impulses are not felt as a direct stimulus in the vagina, but build uo a solid and peristant arousal with a nearly mystical flavour.

Anal dildos and vibrators

By means of an anal dildo is it possible to reach a lot of sensitive point in the rectum. The ring muscle around the anus and the further surrounding area is very sensual, and the insertion of a dildo will stimulate the nerve endings and sensorial body in this region. The rectal and anal region is so sensitive that even a very gentle insertion and inside stimulation with a thin dildo will induse strong feelings. A harder play or a thicker dildo will give other types of feelings, but not necessarily give stronger sensations.

You can masturbate your rectal and posterior pelvic area by gently pushing and pulling the dildo in and out. Variate how deep you insert the dildo during this rectal masturbation and also the angle you use so that different areas get stimulated.

A gentle prolonged caress of the inside of the rectum with a dildo or other objects will often after some time give strange feelings of pleasure in the whole pelvic and stomach region and a strange mental ecstacy that is very difficult to describe.


Butt plugs

Butt plugs are objects of various size and shape that shall be held in plase in the anal opening. The base of the plug is outside, The part that goes through the opening is less wide than the base. The part inside has a conical shape. Te butt pligg shall be kept in plase for some time during sexual activity, or even during rest. The wider base will stimulate the buttocks at each side, the plug will stimulate the anal opening by stretching, and the inside coniical part will gently stimulate the rectal walls. The continous stimulatioj with a butt plug will gradually build up ectsatic physical and mental feelings that reach far away from the anal opening.

Many playing toys have such a shape and such a size that they can be used both as a butt plug or as a dildo. These toys can be kept in place for a longer time, but can also be mooved to stimulate the rectal region actively.


Anal beads

Anal beads are long flexible toys of various kind that can reach into the depest parts of the rectum and even up into the colon. By genle insertion a lot of secret sensible points can be reached and gently stimulated. You can also keep the anal bead in place for a longer tine, at the same time as you masturbate your cock or other zones. It is also possible to just lay still relaxing and let the bead stimulate your inside passively. After some time solid feelings of pleasure emanate from the rectal region in all directions into your pelvic zone and stomack, and simulatnously inducing a solid mystical mental ecstacy.

A way of activly using anal beads is to gently push an pull the bead some way in and out, and this way you actually masturbate your rectum and lower colon.


Erotic enemas and the like

Enemas and colonic irrigation can be good for the health. By doing it in a gentle and erotic atmosphere, they can also give a lot of sexual pleasure. Erotic enenas are most exciting when one person plays the role of the care taker and the other the role of the pasient. The position of the patient is important for the erotic value of the procedure. Positions with the legs pred in various way and the whole intimate area exposed for view is perhaps the most arousing.


Chastity belts and the like

Traditionally a chastity belt were a device that women wore during the day in order to hinder rape. They were also compulsivly mounted by husbands, parents or authorities on women or girls both to hinder rape and to hinder the gril from engaging in sexual play or intercource. Similar devices for young boys have also been used, mainly to hinder masturbation. However, such devices will by themself effect sexual stimulation when worn. Therefore chastisty devices can be worn during the day in order to get sexual stimulation and enhance the arousal before sexual activities. You can for example choose to wear the belt some hours before you play with yoursekf or play together with your partner. You can construct certain rituals to be used when the belt is taken off before sex play and the way the belt is taken on and reclosed whwn the play time is over.


Erotic lingerie

Erotic lingerie can greatly enhance the sexyal excitement when two persons have fun with each other or also if one only have fun with oneself. These intimate clothes attract the attention towards the most sensual areas, and they make it easy to open up for the entrance when the time has come. They are also generally constructed to physically grip hold of, support and stimulate the intimate zones of the man or women before they are opened or taken off. They are constructed to press the female lips together so that they embrace the clitoris in a stimulating way. Every time the women mooves her legs her lips that taightly closes around her clitoris will caress it with alight gentle movements. Lingerie for a man are generally made so that the penis is held taightly and firmly up towardsx the stomach and get carressed by the cloth and his nether belly area. They are also generally constructed to hold firmly, but still gently aroud his scrotum. When he moves, his gentital skin is gently pulled downwards and pushed upwards and stimulate the inner parts of his genitals.

The clothes for both men and women are so formed as to follow the curvarure of the buttocks into the cleft and caress the intimate area around the rectal opening at also tirectly at the anus. Also sexy preast holder grip firmly around the tits and stimulate the breast nipples. This is a stimulation both a woman and a man can get from breast lingerie fit to ones own anatomy.

When the lingerie is taken out or opened,. the intimate zones get into the colder air. The cold breath felt against these sensitive zones, as they are exposed to open air also stimulates the arousal. The cooling effect generally make the small muscles in the skin around the airs contract and these contractions are felt as an exciting ticling around the genital zones.


BDSM equipment

BDSM equipment is to be found in great variety. Such equipment is generally authority tools more or less resambling tools used by aithority profeesions, like police, teacher, military officers, doctors, nannies, nurses,etc. To get the beswt excitement from use of these tools, som kind of roleplay with some degree of authentic setting and behaviour is necessary.


Erotic massage equipment

Every electric massager can be used in some way to stimulate erotic feelings. Usual therapeutic massage equipment is however too brutal to be used directly on the genitals. They can however be used at the buttocks, the tighs and the stomach near the genitals and by means of the vibrations and stretching actions stimulate sexual feelings and excitement. There are however more gently massagers that also can be used directly on penis, on the anal area, on the lips of the cunt and in the area between the legs.

A vibratig dildo can be used as an erotic massager, There are also small vibrators that is made to do gentle massage upon the outer genital aream between the cunt lips, on the clitoris or directly upon the anus.

When doing erotic massage, it is best to begin massaging the areas at some distance from the intimate area, and then gradually circling in against the intimate zomes. Eventually the most sensual and intimate points are stimulated. by the massager. It i also best to tease up with a very gentle touch at the beginning, and gradually massage harder at special sensual points around the genitals. When you massage the most sensual and intimate points like the penis head and the clitoris, you must alleays do it ve5ry gently. The anus however can take a somewhat stronger treatment.


Erotic massage oils

Use of erotic massage oils during erotic massage can enhance the experience considerably. The oil permits the massage movements to glide better along. Many oils also have an arousing scent. Many oils also have compunds that dissipates through the skin, increases the blood circulation and stimulates nerve endings. These effects will in turn give bigger physical sensations, larger arousal and greater libido.

Erotic massage oils have a long tradition in many cultures. Many oils or oil sets are based on these traditions or inspired by them, for example the Kama Sutra erotic massage oil series.